Devotional for friends // Devocional para as amigas

  Vergonha e o manto do orgulho. I have been struck by the feeling of shame a lot. But before shame, there is another feeling that results in shame. It is the sense of failure. We all fail. No one is always successful in everything one does. We can be successful in one thing and fail in another. They say, “one cannot have it all”. I particularly agree with that statement. So, why do we tend to feel ashamed when we fail at something or someone? Do we have a responsibility to be successful in everything? Who put that burden on us? We grow up wanting to please our parents; we fail. We want to please our kids; we fail. We want to be good at everything we do, but there will be things, in plural, that we will suck. Just like there isn’t one person who knows it all, so one cannot be successful in everything. We fail. Period. We fail a lot. Even the most perfect person ever existed in this world didn’t please everybody, but was successful in His m...

  Tiago 4:10 I was reading my Bible this morning (Psalm 25) when I was about verse 7 – “Do not remember the sins of my youth, nor my transgressions; according to Your mercy remember me, for Your goodness’ sake, O LORD.” I started praying and asking God forgiveness for my arrogance and pride; to heal my soul, my mind, and my heart. Then, I realized my words. I realized that for so long I have been asking God things that I thought I deserved, things that are good in essence; things that I thought I would be of more use to others. Nothing apparently selfish. But, in fact, it was very arrogant of me to think that I am deserving of anything. The only thing I deserve is death. I am a sinner. I ask for mercy; He has shown me mercy, which indeed is more than I deserve. I forgot to thank Him, really thank Him for it. I failed to realize that everything I have, where I am, with whom I am, all of that is part of His great mercy; and I kept asking, refusing...

Falsos mestres usam palavras cristãs, mas pregam outro evangelho. G.K. Chesterton wrote, “Christianity was unpopular not because of the humility, but of the arrogance of the Christians”. Christians pretend to be humble. We all want to look good before God, right? Let’s be frank. It feels good to be right, doesn’t it? Of course, we must do what is right, but why is it so hard to be humble when we know that what we do is the right way? Instead, we become arrogant, and even if we mean well, we want to force everyone to do the right thing in the same way we do it. Nowhere in the Scriptures say that we must follow a protocol to be accepted. When a group of people resists our way and does it their own way, which can also be right, we become contemptuous and fail at loving one another. Because of our arrogance. In Luke 9:49 – 50 “Master, said John, “we saw someone driving out demons in your name, and we tried to stop him, because he is not one of us”...

  I knew a word in Portuguese that I didn’t know in English, and I had never looked it up before. It turned out to be “heartbreak”. I thought we could only use this word in a romantic sense. I realized that is not so. A mother can be heartbroken because her son really disappointed her or didn’t give her due respect or consideration. A son also can be heartbroken if his father doesn’t show appreciation for him. Speaking of appreciation, we all want to be appreciated by our peers, especially parents. Most of the things we do for others, especially in a family context, we do it expecting some degree of appreciation. When we feel ignored, we can easily feel heartbroken. I realize that heartbreak can sicken the mind and the body. Our brain responds positively with good things. It can quickly restore or change the biochemical components of the body, let’s put it this way. When something disappoints us, our brain also responds to it, in a negative...

  What is the most important thing or person in your life? What are you willing to do to make this person safe and happy? If it's a thing, what are you willing to do to keep it? We often see people literally killing for money or a position of power. But I am not going to talk about that. I suppose, in fact, I want to believe the most important thing in your life isn't a thing but a person or a couple of people, what we usually call “family.” It doesn’t matter if they are family by blood or not. Family is what gives us a sense of belonging, security, love, and refuge. That is why we want to keep it safe and happy, in unity. However, it is hard to keep a family united, isn’t it? We value them, but we don’t really fight for them as we should, as we fight for the position of power, or money, or career. Some people sacrifice their family for their career. Maybe they believe they can fix it later once they get what they want; but can they ...

  Words   The world wants us to believe that being true to our emotions and feelings are the best thing we can do to ourselves. It is not. It is that simple. Emotions and feelings are fleeting things. They change and complicate things, a lot. Every time we act on our emotions, we most likely will regret it a little after. I am not only talking about emotions like passion or anger. Or as they like saying, anxiety. First of all, anxiety is a disease, not a feeling much less emotion. Love is a decision. Hate is also a decision. Decision that can be based on your feelings. “I like that person, because she makes me feel loved, cared for. She pays attention to me. She listens to me; therefore I can say that I love her.” You are being a follower of utilitarianism, and that is not love. I am not saying it is wrong. I am saying that is not love. We all are at certain times and degrees utilitarian. Who does not like being treated right? Who ...