Devotional for friends // Devocional para as amigas

  I feel very disappointed when I can't make myself understood. But there are people who just don't want to try to understand. They are set in their own opinion, like a closed door. There is nothing you can say that will change that.  I am not asking for you or anyone else to agree with me. I don't think that I ever cared about what most people thought of me. However, there are a few people whom I don't even want to care about, but I care. Because there are some people in our lives who were made for us to care about them in everything they do or think.  But can I honor that when I am always being misunderstood? When all my explanations go down the drain without a single consideration? Or sometimes a few words are picked up and thrown back at me, like I said, with the sole purpose of offending? Have you ever felt that way? There is an order in the universe that we can't change. Unless one comes to this world broken, defective. We were made to please God and honor our...

  Psalm 77: 19  “Your path led through the sea,    your way through the mighty waters, Though your footprints were not seen.”   How is the sea? Sometimes it is calm, sometimes it rages with huge waves. Sometimes we can see through the water the sand, but most of the time, we can’t. And when we are walking by the waters, the waves come and undo our footprints. The sea is like our lives and God’s will.  Our lives can have calm times, turbulent times, we can be certain where we are going, and most of the time, we can’t know for sure what we are supposed to do.  God’s ways are not like ours. We need to see what is ahead of us. We plan for the future, but we can’t see the future, and yet we still plan it. When things don’t go the way we planned, we find a way to blame someone or something. But how can we plan for something we cannot see? It is like being sure of a way in the dark. Thinking that we will be successful, trust...

The last straw that broke the camel's back. First, last Sunday, the preaching was so good that I kept thinking about it the whole week. I felt that I had to share with everyone. ( First Pres SD ) But I am going to start with another verse. Pastor Jeff started with the verse 19 – 21; Romans 12:19-21. I am going to start with Romans 12:9. “Let love be genuine.” We can utter words that we don’t really mean, can’t we? It is like watching romances on T.V. that a few moments later the couple are in love, and already saying “I love you”, next minute something happens and they are apart. Where did that love go? But that doesn’t mean that we should say “I love you”. We must say it and mean it. This is a command from God. But we must mean it. We don’t automatically love a person. We empathize with the person first. Sometimes, we can feel that we are going to be friends. Or we just don’t click, right? What is love anyway? Do you love your mother and ...

  In my church, better in San Diego I have this impression that we have a lot of elderly people. They say it is because of the weather. The weather brings retired people to live here. Years ago, at least. Currently, living in Southern California is way too expensive. I bet they are going to Florida, despite the hurricanes. Where am I going with this? I had plans when I moved back to my hometown 11 years ago. I wanted to be closer to my ageing mom. I know my mom. I know that she is not the easy-going person we hoped. She is a person with a hard and sad past. I wanted to be with her. Even knowing that it wouldn’t be a smooth living, I was willing to live with her. I wasn’t expecting to get married. I wasn’t expecting my now-husband to move with me. I thought he was going to choose to stay in São Paulo, or go back to his country, or whatever. But after I told him what my plan was, I said, if he wanted to come with me, it would be nice. But I k...