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Who are you to blame? // Quem é você para culpar?

 


 Not all wilderness (wildlife) is dry. They might be as well as beautiful but still full of dangers. // Nem toda natureza selvagem (vida selvagem) é árida. Elas podem ser belas e ainda assim cheias de perigos.


“Is it not from the mouth of the Most High that woe and well-being proceed? Why should a living man complain, a man from the punishment of his sins? Let us search out and examine our ways, and turn back to the LORD” Lamentation 4:38-40.

 

I am still in the Suffering topic. Although the Bible project has been talking about it, my daily Bible reading has also been focusing in the same topic. Maybe it is something that I should think about more carefully.

 

I used to blame my father for most of the bad things that happened to me during my childhood and my teens. Today, I don’t think he is blameless, but he is not responsible for everything. There are my own choices and God’s plans.

 

As the guys from the Bible project have pointed out. There are three reasons that we may end up in the wilderness. Someone else put us there, like Hagar was driven out to the wilderness because of Abraham and Sarah; there is the people of Israel going to exile as consequences of their own choices; and there are God’s plans, like some prophets, even Jesus was driven by the Spirit to be tested in the wilderness.

 

Yes, I agree with the prophet Jeremaiah, why should a living man complain if woe as well as success proceed both from the Most High? How come people are so averse to suffering? My mom used to say, “who doesn’t want to suffer is born dead”. I’ve always thought that was a terrible thing to say, but I get the point now. We are all going to go through something once in a while during our lifetime.

 

After a few occurrences, we should know how or what to expect from that. Or at least seek God for understanding, instead of complaining or asking why or asking for deliverance. Yes, we should ask for deliverance. Even Jesus asked for deliverance on His way to the Cross. God said no. They had to fulfill the promise. There is a bigger plan in motion that we don’t see and much less understand.

 

So, what? Should we just accept it? I would say yes. We should accept it and try to do our best and learn the most during these times. Knowing that God will not forsake us. If we are faithful, how much more should we expect from God? Even if we fail in our faith and our ways, He promised that He will never abandon us. We must seek Him and never turn our back on Him.

We are always the first to turn our backs on God. He is always willing to forgive and restore.

 

When bad things happen to us, the first thing we do is blame someone or something to blame. We never assume that we are at fault, too. Maybe we went to the wilderness with our own feet, driven by our own choices; pleasures, money, revenge, fame, whatever it is the reason that takes us there, make sure it didn’t start with you.

 

A self-evaluation from time to time is always welcome. In fact, we should do that every day.

 

Someone said something hurtful. Should we instantly blame them? Should I not evaluate my own speech, stares, judgment, maybe just care about their well-being first, instead of blaming and being selfish? We should remember that we are not the only ones getting hurt. We are constantly hurting people, and most of the tim,e we don’t even notice it, because we don’t notice them. Sometimes they just need a shoulder to lean on, an ear to listen, a compassionate look, a hand to help.

 

The hardest thing for a selfish person to notice is that she/he is selfish. He/she is so full of themselves that they can’t see any further, and that hurts people.

 

We should be kind at all times to everyone. Especially to those who have hurt us.

You heard “hurt people hurt people”.

 

The wilderness is only a bad spot if we resist it. If we close our minds and think that God has nothing to do with that. I recommend reading the book of Job for starters. Better, read the whole Bible with this in mind.

Check it out what happened in the wilderness with those people? What did they find there?

 

The wilderness prepares us to enter the Garden of Eden. Adam and Eve were exiles because they weren’t ready to stay there. We are exiled from the garden because we are still too selfish to be there. The only one who passed the test was Jesus. He loved us till the end.

“Não procedem da boca do Altíssimo a desgraça e a paz? Por que se queixaria o homem vivente, e o homem, do castigo dos seus pecados? Examinemos os nossos caminhos e voltemos para o Senhor.” Lamentações 4:38-40.

 

Ainda estou no tema do sofrimento. Embora o projeto bíblico tenha abordado esse assunto, minha leitura diária da Bíblia também tem se concentrado nisso. Talvez seja algo sobre o qual eu deva refletir com mais cuidado.

 

Eu costumava culpar meu pai pela maioria das coisas ruins que me aconteceram durante minha infância e adolescência. Hoje, não acho que ele seja inocente, mas ele não é responsável por tudo. Há minhas próprias escolhas e os planos de Deus.

 

Como o pessoal do projeto bíblico apontou, existem três razões pelas quais podemos acabar no deserto. Alguém nos colocou lá, como Agar foi expulsa para o deserto por causa de Abraão e Sara; há o povo de Israel indo para o exílio como consequência de suas próprias escolhas; E existem os planos de Deus, como alguns profetas, até mesmo Jesus foi levado pelo Espírito a ser testado no deserto.

 

Sim, concordo com o profeta Jeremias, por que um homem vivo deveria reclamar se tanto o sofrimento quanto o sucesso vêm do Altíssimo? Como é que as pessoas são tão avessas ao sofrimento? Minha mãe costumava dizer: "Quem não quer sofrer nasce morto". Sempre achei isso uma coisa terrível de se dizer, mas agora entendo o ponto. Todos nós vamos passar por alguma coisa de vez em quando durante a nossa vida.

 

Após algumas dessas experiências, devemos saber como ou o que esperar delas. Ou pelo menos buscar a Deus para obter entendimento, em vez de reclamar, perguntar por que ou pedir libertação. Sim, devemos pedir libertação. Até Jesus pediu libertação a caminho da cruz. Deus disse não. Eles tinham que cumprir a promessa. Há um plano maior em ação que não vemos e muito menos entendemos.

 

Então, o que fazer? Devemos simplesmente aceitar? Eu diria que sim. Devemos aceitar a situação e tentar dar o nosso melhor e aprender o máximo possível durante esses momentos, sabendo que Deus não nos abandonará. Se somos fiéis, quanto mais podemos esperar de Deus? Mesmo que falhemos na fé e em nossos caminhos, Ele prometeu que nunca nos abandonará. Devemos buscá-Lo e nunca virar as costas para Ele.

Somos sempre os primeiros a virar as costas para Deus. Ele está sempre disposto a perdoar e restaurar.

 

Quando coisas ruins nos acontecem, a primeira coisa que fazemos é culpar alguém ou alguma coisa. Nunca presumimos que também temos culpa. Talvez tenhamos ido para o deserto com nossos próprios pés, movidos por nossas próprias escolhas: prazeres, dinheiro, vingança, fama, seja qual for o motivo que nos leva até lá, certifique-se de que não começou com você.

 

Uma autoavaliação de tempos em tempos é sempre bem-vinda. Aliás, devemos fazer isso todos os dias.

 

Alguém disse algo doloroso. Devemos culpá-lo imediatamente? Não deveria eu avaliar minha própria fala, olhares, julgamentos, e talvez me preocupar primeiro com o bem-estar deles, em vez de culpar e ser egoísta? Devemos lembrar que não somos os únicos que se machucam. Constantemente machucamos as pessoas e, na maioria das vezes, nem percebemos, porque não as notamos. Às vezes, elas só precisam de um ombro amigo, um ouvido atento, um olhar compassivo, uma mão amiga.

 

A coisa mais difícil para uma pessoa egoísta perceber é que ela é egoísta. Ela está tão cheia de si que não consegue enxergar além, e isso machuca as pessoas.

 

Devemos ser gentis com todos o tempo todo. Especialmente com aqueles que nos machucaram.

Você já ouviu "pessoas feridas ferem pessoas".

Dê uma verificada o que aconteceu no deserto com aquelas pessoas? O que eles acharam lá?

 

O deserto só é um lugar ruim se resistirmos a ele. Se fecharmos nossas mentes e pensarmos que Deus não tem nada a ver com isso. Recomendo ler o livro de Jó para começar. Melhor ainda, leia toda a Bíblia com isso em mente.

 

O deserto nos prepara para entrar no Jardim do Éden. Adão e Eva foram exilados porque não estavam prontos para permanecer lá. Nós fomos exilados do jardim porque ainda somos egoístas demais para estar lá. O único que passou no teste foi Jesus. Ele nos amou até o fim.

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